Fine Sometimes Rain Chapter 08 – P08
Sep28
Sorry the page wasn’t up this morning, I’ve been a little slow as I didn’t sleep well last night due to a certain cat being a nuisance. And by certain cat I mean Coco, who you can see pics of on my instagram @tsukiyono if you are curious. XD Anyway new scene starts next week!
It’s fine. D’aww, silly kitty. X3
Wish I had someone like him in my life, I swear the people around me just treat depression as just pure evil which yeah it’s a terrible thing, but I’m forced to just no cry or let out my feelings at all “don’t cry” is one of the worst things to hear when you’re depressed. Bottling up does no good, the bottle’s not going to overflow it’s going to burst.
yeah, I understand it can feel horrible keeping it in. An ocean of tears weighing down on the heart with a pain that’s hard to bare growing. Until it becomes over whelming flooding everything waves of sorrow crashing on the surface. Some one saying ” don’t cry” really can be the worst because you feel it has to be a burden handled alone. Leaving you to get dragged into a whirl pool that formed drowning and torn by its unrelenting currents.
Yeah, I know when most people say “don’t cry” it’s because they don’t want you to be sad, so they are coming from a good place, but they are a bit misguided. Sometimes you just need to cry it out and really crying can be pretty therapeutic. Anyway if you need to cry, do so, and if you feel someone might give you a hard time about it then go someplace private like your bedroom, the shower, the toilet even! XD
As Amy said, I think a lot of “don’t cry” responses are really about the speaker not knowing what to do to help. Directing you to not be sad (something my mom did a lot) is the best they can come up with. But I hope you can find someone in your life who understands how to just be with you in the sadness. Someone who can understand that you are not your sadness, and they’re being there for *you* while the sadness flows out and relieves that pressure in you. We all deserve that.